IB/uverbs: Add action_handle flow steering specification

Binding a flow_action to flow steering rule requires using a new
specification. Therefore, adding such an IB_FLOW_SPEC_ACTION_HANDLE flow
specification.

Flow steering rules could use flow_action(s) and as of that we need to
avoid deleting flow_action(s) as long as they're being used.
Moreover, when the attached rules are deleted, action_handle reference
count should be decremented. Introducing a new mechanism of flow
resources to keep track on the attached action_handle(s). Later on, this
mechanism should be extended to other attached flow steering resources
like flow counters.

Reviewed-by: Yishai Hadas <yishaih@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Matan Barak <matanb@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>

include/uapi/rdma/ib_user_verbs.h

@@ -984,6 +984,19 @@ struct ib_uverbs_flow_spec_action_drop {
 	};
 };
 
+struct ib_uverbs_flow_spec_action_handle {
+	union {
+		struct ib_uverbs_flow_spec_hdr hdr;
+		struct {
+			__u32 type;
+			__u16 size;
+			__u16 reserved;
+		};
+	};
+	__u32			      handle;
+	__u32			      reserved1;
+};
+
 struct ib_uverbs_flow_tunnel_filter {
 	__be32 tunnel_id;
 };